FBEL – Tech and Kids (and Adults)
Found on the book of faces:
- 1 in 5 children has mental health problems
- A 43% increase in ADHD has been noticed
- A 37% increase in teenage depression has been noticed
- A 200% increase in the suicide rate in children aged 10 to 14 has been noticed
- Emotionally available parents
- Clearly Defined Boundaries
- Responsibilities
- Balanced nutrition and adequate sleep
- Movement in general but especially outdoors
- Creative play, social interaction, unstructured play opportunities and spaces for boredom
- Digitally Distracted Parents
- Forgiving and permissive parents who let children “rule the world” and be the ones who make the rules
- A sense of entitlement, of deserving everything without earning it or being responsible for getting it
- Poor sleep and unbalanced nutrition
- A sedentary lifestyle
- Endless stimulation, technological nannies, instant gratification and absence of dull moments
- Set limits and remember that you are the captain of the ship. Your kids will feel safer knowing you have the control of the helm.
- Offer children a balanced lifestyle full of what children NEED, not just what they WANT. Don’t be afraid to say “no” to your kids if what they want isn’t what they need.
- Provide nutritious food and limit junk food.
- Spend at least one hour a day outdoors doing activities such as: cycling, hiking, fishing, bird/insect watching
- Enjoy a daily family dinner without smartphones or technology distracting them.
- Play board games as a family or if the children are too young for board games, let them lead their interests and let them be the ones who rule the game
- Involve your children in some task or household chores according to their age (folding clothes, sorting toys, hanging clothes, unpacking groceries, setting the table, feeding the dog, etc. )
- Implement a consistent sleep routine to ensure your child gets enough sleep. The timetables will be even more important for school-age children.
- Teach responsibility and independence. Don’t overprotect them against any frustration or any mistake. Making mistakes will help you develop resilience and learn to overcome life’s challenges,
- Do not carry your children’s backpack, do not take their backpacks, do not take them the homework they forgot, do not peel their bananas or oranges if they can do it by themselves (4-5 years). Instead of giving them the fish, teach them how to fish.
- Teach them to wait and delay gratification.
- Provide opportunities for “boredom”, because boredom is the moment when creativity awakens. Doesn’t feel responsible for always keeping the kids entertained.
- Do not use technology as a cure for boredom, nor offer it to the first second of inactivity.
- Avoid the use of technology during meals, in cars, restaurants, shopping centers. Use these moments as opportunities to socialize by training the brains to know how to function when they are in the mood: “boredom”
- Help them create a “jar of boredom” with activity ideas for when they are bored.
- Be emotionally available to connect with children and teach them self-regulation and social skills:
- Turn off phones at night when kids have to go to bed to avoid digital distraction.
- Become an emotional regulator or coach for your children. Teach them to acknowledge and manage their own frustrations and anger.
- Teach them to greet, to take turns, to share without anything, to say thank you and please, to acknowledge the mistake and apologize (don’t force them), be a model of all those values you instill.
- Connect emotionally – smile, hug, kiss, tickle, read, dance, jump, play or crawl with them.
On Going Concerns About Youth Violence
The reports are that this is a 14 year old girl in Scotland. As you can clearly see, she is brandishing a knife and a hatchet. Both of which she is prohibited from having.
This is just another example of how the youth of the UK are becoming more and more violent. We need to make an example of them.
A 14-year-old girl was identified and charged in connection with possessing the bladed weapon. Police vehicles were observed at the nearby Balgay Street car park during the investigation.
The girl was reported to the relevant authorities, with no further details on the nature of the weapon or specific charges disclosed. No injuries were reported during the incident.
The event was noted in the context of Scotland’s ongoing concerns about youth violence, as highlighted by the Daily Record’s “Our Kids … Our Future” campaign. The case remains under review, with no court date specified as of August 25, 2025.
Maybe there is more to this story?
Such as the girl in the picture was defending her 12 year old friend who had just been assaulted by a foreign invader. That she was afraid of being assaulted herself. That there were more foreign invaders moving toward her.
If you have watched the video, you can hear that evil invader taunting her to show the knife. He knows that if he reports her for having the knife, she will be arrested.
Nothing will happen to him.
This video clip might be the start of something good for the UK.
Tuesday Tunes – The House of the Rising Sun
… but not as you usually hear it.
Sorry this is kind of short, but I’m pinch hitting for Chris tonight. He’s having network issues and so asked me to share a Tuesday tunes with you guys. This is a group/person that I have been listening to for a while and she does what’s called Bard core music. She takes modern tunes and turns them into medieval ones. I adore them and think they’re hysterical and usually really good. And this is the one that I was listening to when he asked me to post for him and so I am sharing with you. I hope you enjoy!
The Weekly Feast – Tofu Wraps
I realize not everyone likes tofu, but let’s face facts: it’s cheap, it’s relatively healthy, and you can cook it in a zillion different ways. I’m in the process of learning how to use it for more meals, and so I’m going to share some of those recipes (the good ones) with you. This one in particular was so yummy that even my tofu-hater was willing to have it again!
Ingredients:
- block firm tofu, drained
- ¼ cup soy sauce
- 1 tbsp dark brown sugar*
- 2 tbsp unseasoned rice vinegar
- 1 tsp toasted sesame oil
- 1 tsp red pepper flakes
- 1 tsp fish sauce (optional)
- 2 tbsp cooking oil
- 1 tbsp ginger, minced
- 2 cloves garlic, minced
- lime juice, for seasoning
- wraps or pitas, for stuffing
Start by wrapping up your tofu in a lint free towel or cheesecloth, and putting it onto a cutting board. Place a cast iron skillet or a baking sheet weighed down with something heavy on top on top of the tofu, and let it drain for at least 15 minutes, or as long as 45 minutes. Don’t skip this, as it helps with the texture of the tofu.
Crumble the pressed tofu into a bowl using your fingers. You want small pieces, with none larger than a pea.
In a separate bowl, whisk together the soy sauce, sugar (*you can use Splenda brown sugar blend or any other sweetener you prefer if you don’t like the regular stuff), vinegar, sesame oil, red pepper, and fish sauce (or if you don’t like fish sauce, you may sub in Worcestershire sauce or mushroom ketchup for umami). The sugar may not fully dissolve, and that’s okay. It will once you begin heating it later in the recipe. Do your best!
In a large cast iron skillet or other nonstick pan, heat the cooking oil over a medium high heat. Add in the tofu, shake it to make an even single layer, and let it cook without stirring until it crisps up and is deep golden brown on the bottom. This can take 5 to 7 minutes. It’s okay to peek to see how it’s doing, but don’t stir it up until it forms that crispy bottom. Once it’s crisp, stir it up (breaking it up if necessary), and try to flip over the pieces to crisp the other side. You want the entire batch of tofu to be crispy, which requires you to let it sit and cook in the oil. It shouldn’t take too long, though.
Once the tofu is crispy, add in the ginger and garlic and stir gently until fragrant. This should take a minute or less. Add in the soy mixture, and continue to cook until the liquid essentially evaporates. This may take up to 10 minutes, but more likely will only take 5 minutes or so.
Spoon the tofu into the wraps or pitas, and add any garnishes you like (such as cilantro leaves, shredded lettuce, tomato, hot sauce, etc.). Top with a light squeeze of lime, then serve.
Notes:
The spicy hot mixes so well with the sweet in this! Too often, tofu is served squishy, and this avoids that problem. If you find that you can’t get a good crisp on the tofu crumbles, you can try dusting it all with a teaspoon or so of cornstarch and then just hand mixing it lightly before frying it. The cornstarch helps it crisp, but also adds to the calories, so avoid it if you can.
Association of New Jersey Rifle and Pistol Clubs I v. Attorney General New Jersey, 24-2506, (3rd Cir.)
This case is being set up for a bases loaded home run.
Consider the Second Amendment legal landscape of 4 years ago. Heller had set the standard. Is the plain text of the Second Amendment implicated? If so, what is this Nation’s historical tradition of firearm regulation?
This was a joyful time. I remember that D.C. became a constitutional carry location for about 5 minutes before they changed the rules.
The problem we had was that there was a footnote in the Heller opinion that the anti-gunners used to pry open the path to gun control.
California was one of the first states to drive through that gap. Chicago, Maryland, New Jersey, and others quickly followed.
These Heller response laws were challenged. The cases made their way up to the circuit courts, where we learned the wonderful world of interest balancing.
Under interest balancing, the courts would first ask the purpose of the law or regulation. If the proposed purpose was deemed to be “important” enough, then a lower standard of scrutiny would be applied. If the proposed purpose wasn’t important enough, then higher levels of scrutiny would be applied.
What this meant was that the courts looked like they were treating the plaintiffs with respect while putting four or five thumbs on the scales of justice.
The 9th, 7th, 2nd, 3rd, and 4th circuit courts all took up the cry of “interest balancing.” The other circuits weren’t ruling on Second Amendment cases, so it didn’t really matter.
All the circuits that took up Second Amendment challenges all decided in the same way. Against The People.
Bruen put an end to levels of scrutiny. The inferior courts are still playing games. The current game playing focuses on “Is it an arm?” and “Can you prove it is in common use for self-defense?” Their goal is to keep Bruen from being applied.
But we have a problem. All the circuit courts that are ruling on Second Amendment cases are ruling the same way. Against The People. They are still the same rogue, inferior courts, thumbing their noses at the Supreme Court.
But something has changed out there in New Jersey and the Third Circuit Court of Appeals.
Trump and other originalist jurists have become a majority in the Third Circuit.
If we can get just one more confirmation, and there is a nominee going through the process right now, it will be an even larger majority.
The People got a shitty draw of judges for the merits panel. Not that surprising. We expected another loss. Judges Shwartz, Freeman, and Smith heard oral arguments on July 1st 4-2450-24-2506_Association of NJ Rifle Pistol Clubs v. Attorney General N. Jetal.
Here is where it gets interesting: on the same day that the case was argued, the court ordered the parties to produce a transcript. Which was entered into the record on July 15th.
Why did they need a written record? Likely because they expected other courts or panels were going to want to read it.
Under the Third Circuit’s internal operating procedures, a merits panel must circulate their opinion(s) before they are published. This gives the rest of the judges on the court an opportunity to comment and provide suggestions.
But something else can happen: if a majority of the active judges are in disagreement with the proposed opinion, they can grant an en banc hearing sua sponte. (Without a request from either party). And this is what happened on August 21st.
We are pretty sure that the opinion by this three-judge merits panel was going to go against us. If the majority of the active judges agreed with that opinion, there is no reason to call for an en banc hearing.
En banc hearings in the Third Circuit are a pain. It is all the judges dealing with the one case. It isn’t common.
In Snope we saw the Fourth Circuit do the same thing; gut in that case, we were expecting a positive opinion.
Oral arguments will be held on October 15th at 0930.
The only wrinkle is that Judge Smith is no longer an active judge, but he has elected to participate as a member of the en banc panel. Smith is currently a senior judge, meaning he only hears cases of interest to him.
If the Third Circuit finds for The People and the Constitution, this will create a major circuit split. This makes the case ripe for the Supreme Court. Matching it with Kavanaugh’s dissent in refusing cert on Snope.
The Straw Man
Because I am invested in The Fort at No. 4, I see news articles from the area. Yesterday I read a press release from School Administrative Unit 6 (SAU-6) which covers Claremont, NH.
Claremont is just up the road from the Fort so I read it.
The Business Administrator has been put on paid leave; a school board member with lots of accounting (CPA) was appointed to do the job of BA.
From my weak sources, it seems like this BA wasn’t doing a good job. There are no signed Audits since 2021. They have a budget short fall over around $5 million.
Entirely the fault of this administrator and those supervising her.
This, of course, led to the comments.
We could go into the blame game. Which comes down to Trump and “local taxes.” The local taxes are property taxes. The SAUs are funded from the local property taxes. Residents of the towns that belong to the SAU have to vote on the school budget. Occasionally the proposed budgets are not approved.
The budget for my SAU has failed twice in the past 10 years. The first time I showed up at school board meetings was to find out where the money was being spent. What I did manage to get into the record was that while the teachers salaries were not increased because of the vote, the administrator’s pay still went up.
I pushed for, and I believe they passed, a resolution that says, “If the teachers don’t get a raise, the administration doesn’t get a raise.”
The last time, the school system just overextended itself doing too much non-educational stuff.
Our SAU didn’t have anything looking like abuse of the budget; it just wasn’t restraining itself.
Claremont’s issues are entirely self-inflicted. 19 new teachers to the SAU were canned. They had already signed contracts, so those teachers are well and truly screwed.
This leaves public schools to figure out how to fund themselves all over the state. Most municipalities raise their own taxes in a way to avoid the issue because they know the state will not take responsibility.
Claremont seems to have mismanaged the little funding they have as a result of confusion and lack of state support. So now they are in an emergency budgeting event resulting in the return of equipment, cancellation of new teaching contacts and supplies orders to work towards a functional shoe string budget.
All this while the state pays federal stooges from the Heritage Foundation etc. to draw out the multiple court cases NH municipalities have filed against the state for failing at its federal duties.
To sum it up – Stupid and greedy republicans. Spineless Dems. Selfish and ignorant voter base.
And this is the straw man. This person has never listened to a Republican; instead, they have built an image of a “Republican” where they put motives and evil.
If the federal tax rate was a flat 10% and you made $35,000/year, you would pay $3,500 per year in taxes. If you make $350,000/year, your taxes would be $35,000 per year. No leftist screams that going from 10% to 11% will cost the person with the larger income $3,500 more per year but it will only cost the lower earner $350 more.
But if the tax rate drops from 10% to 9%, it is a tax cut for the wealthy.
But I’m ignorant, according to Mr. achy_joints. He believes that everything that PragerU puts out is “bullshit.” Why? He can’t tell you why, but he knows it is BS.
It reminds me of the people claiming Glenn Beck was a horrible person for the things he said. This is a man who was on talk radio for multiple hours per day; he was on a national televised show once a day. With 10 years of history, every single “proof” lead back to the same 5 minute collection of things he said out of context.
Mr. achy_joints thinks that everything will benefit from more regulations more taxes. Taxes he is unlikely to be paying.
I just get sick over reading the straw man arguments. These are people that haven’t had an open mind in years.
Power Outage
Today I was waiting for clients to get back to me. While I waited, I started installing OpenStack.
So far it has been going well. A few typos slowed things down. Errors are not always clear, but I am now at the point of installing neutron
This is the scary part. The terrifying part.
Neutron interfaces with Open Virtual Networking (OVN). This could be magical, or it could break everything.
OVN sits on top of Open vSwitch, providing configuration.
The gist is that you install OVS, then you add configuration options to the OVS database. This configuration instructs OVN how to talk to its databases.
Once OVN starts talking to its databases, it performs changes in the OVS database. Those changes affect how OVS routes packets.
The physical network is broken into subnets. This is a requirement for high-availability networking. As links go up and down, the network routes around the failures.
On the other hand, many of the tools I use prefer to be on a single network; subnets increase the complexity greatly. Because of this, I created overlay networks. One for block storage, one for compute nodes, and one for virtual machines.
Neutron could modify the OVN or OVS that brings my overlay networks down.
So I’m well into this terrifying process, and the power goes out. It was only out for a few minutes, but that was enough.
The network came back to life.
All but two servers came back to life. One needs a BIOS change to make it come up after a power failure.
One decided that the new drive must be a boot drive, so it tried to boot from that, failed, and just stopped.
All of that put me behind in research, so nothing interesting in the 2A front to report, even though there are big things happening.
The number of moving parts in a data center is almost overwhelming.
Prepping – Sexual Assault
I don’t know if this is really a “prepping” thing, but it’s situational awareness and so I’m calling it prepping today.
Number One Rule: an armed female is a safe female. I believe with all the breath in my body that if every women carried a firearm and was well trained in its use and care, that sexual assaults would nigh on disappear. SA’ers are sorry, loser types who can’t handle real women, and coming face to face with a firearm would make the worm between their legs crawl away in horror. I continually and constantly encourage my women friends to go out, get trained, and pick a quality firearm that they can carry… and then to carry it always. I also believe that safely arming women is the best way to combat the woke shit going on right now, because while the Constitution says we’re equal, Sam Colt guarantees it.
Number Two Rule: people who sexually assault others have declared themselves dog meat, and will be treated as such. I’m not a “dog person” but if the SHTF for real, I’d be picking myself up a good quality mastiff or bulldog, and you can bet your ass I’d be sicking it on anyone who I caught doing such things (or had incontrovertible truth that they had done such things). If I catch you SA’ing someone, I will fuck you up. No, like really. I’m not good with firearms, but I’m hella good with a cast iron frying pan, and I own a ton of them. I catch you, I’ll start with your head, but I’ll end with your balls.
Number Three Rule: women (or anyone, honestly) who lie about sexual assault have proven themselves to no longer be human. And I mean that. I don’t want liars to be prosecuted for lying. I don’t want them to be prosecuted as if they had committed the assault. I want them to be executed. I am strongly of the opinion that the most dangerous thing to women out there is another woman who lies about sexual assault, because it increases the danger for ALL of us. Men and women alike.
So why are you talking about sexual assault today, Allyson?
There are several people in the ren faire community who have been accused of sexual assault. They’re all men, by the by, not that it matters. I’ve met a woman who sexually assaulted men, and I saw her in exactly the same way I saw the males. She was a cretin and she should have been burned at the stake. But I digress… These people come in three categories: known SA’ers, suspected SA’ers, and people who’ve been falsely accused or accused with no credible facts to back it up.
One of the women who had been sexually assaulted three times by different men recently spoke up in the RF community. She chose to post a picture of one of her assaulters and make the post public. And this is where we get a bit dicey. See, perp numbers one and two HAD assaulted her. She went to the police, took them to court, and they were jailed or fined or whatever, and were legally labeled assaulter. All fine and dandy. Perp number three, the one she posted the picture of? She’s “chosen” not to go to the police. And that makes me concerned.
Friday Feedback
DC Clean Up
X has been melting down over the federal government using the Constitution to take control of local law enforcement in D.C.
Wolf Blitzer stepped in it by posting a picture of a HUMVEE at Union Station. He implied it was an affront.
He got ratioed badly. There were many personal comments about how people were feeling safe to be outside at night. One woman talked about how this was the first time in years she’d been able to walk through Union Station without being verbally and sometimes physically harassed.
Another reporter visited a homeless encampment, expecting the standard anti-Trump screeching. Instead, they were told how much better it was now that the criminal element, drug users, and those in need of mental help are gone. One homeless person’s statement was to the effect, “It is the first good sleep I’ve had in months.”
Pushing Back
I do remember Ronald Reagan as our President. He was one of the most skillful orators I’ve had the pleasure to listen to. He was quick-witted and used that skill to zing the media. He did it so well that most of the media laughed at themselves for being zinged.
Trump is not as articulate. He speaks at a 6th grade level, if I recall correctly. I don’t like listening to him speak. What he does is connect with The People.
What is a greater strength is his ability to troll the media and Democrats. He trolls, whereas Reagan cast zingers.
What is most noticeable is just how hard he pushes back on the media and narrative.
What is the massive win, in my opinion, is that his administration uses the same method of pushing back. They don’t get upset with the lies and narratives; they just call it out. And many times make fun of those who have idiotic stances.
According to Reddit, I Live in a Racist State
I don’t engage on Reddit. I have more than enough on my plate as it is. Today’s joy was an “ICE” warning. The top comments all misrepresented facts. “Immigrants,” “neighbors,” “friends” were used to describe the criminal aliens that ICE was looking for.
The kicker for me: “My daily reminder of just how racist this state is.” I live in New Hampshire. There are blacks in this state. There are people of color in the state. The blacks seem to gather in the cities, as per normal. But I can’t find racists anywhere except within the black community.
But they have defined “racist” to mean anybody who doesn’t accept every third world alien that comes into our country.
For them, it is racist that people are upset about the Indian who killed a family of three by making an illegal U-turn. The Florida cops administered a simple test: English proficiency and road signs. He got 2 out of 12 right on the English portion and 1 or none of the road signs.
This monster with a CDL from California killed a family of three, and I’m racist for being upset that he entered my country illegally and was given, given, not earned, a CDL.
OpenStack
I like doing things the old-fashioned way. I like knowing what the hell is going on inside my network. Having software magically do things bothers me.
Unfortunately, none of the documentation for Open Virtual Network (OVN) talks about manually configuring OVN. It all uses OpenStack. In addition, I’ve become unhappy with my Docker Swarm solution. Since I’m not hosting anything locally anymore, it is time to “upgrade” to OpenStack.
What the heck will I break? I’ll know next week.
AI Code Generation
I’ve started using Grok for code generation. There are issues, but I’m working through it.
First, Grok is not a programmer. It is a piece of software that does a particular task. You have to spend the time to define the task.
In this particular case, I’m interested in creating network maps in a cleaner way. Grok gave me that starting point.
No matter how smart it appears, it is stupid. My latest example is that there is an input field for interfaces. There is a example prompt, provided by Grok.
That example prompt leaves out an entire part of the syntax using a different set of symbols.
This reminds me of the discussion about secretaries back when word processors became a thing.
The director of the lab and the directors of the lab divisions all had secretaries. The secretaries did most of the writing. They typed out letters to be sent by snail mail, and they often wrote the email sent over their boss’s signature.
When word processors came out, the directors were expected to write their correspondence. The result was substandard grammar and English. Not because these guys were dumb, but because their skillset didn’t include touch typing at 80 WPM and all the rest that a secretary brings to the mix.
Can the average person use AI to write programs? Maybe. In a year, yes.
Will it be good? No.
Just like we went from having electrical engineering to computer science to information technology, I expect to see classes in creating AI prompts showing up in colleges in the next couple of years.
Until AI makes the next leap, it will take real programmers, coders, and systems people to create fully functional software.
On the plus side, Grok has shown me several patterns that I’m copying.
What Happens When You Use 78% of Your 100 TB of storage?
Alarms start going off. I had a Ceph node die on me. I have the parts to replace it. I haven’t had the time nor incentives to do so.
The nice part was that I was able to physically move most of the drives to different nodes. This led to the great rebalancing.
Ceph uses a layout called a “CRUSH tree” or “CRUSH map.” The idea is to define a set of rules for how data blocks should be distributed to different drives (OSDs).
Ceph provides resilience with two methods: one is via redundancy, and the other is by error codes.
Using redundancy, you specify how many copies of each block of data you want. Three is the smallest safe number. This means that every byte written is duplicated twice. When you retrieve the block, it is pulled from the “closest” node.
A redundancy of 3 means three copies. With error codes, the cost is better. Something closer to 1.6 instead of 3 at the expense of more work calculating the error codes.
If you had all 3 copies of the block on the same drive, if that drive (OSD) fails, you’ve lost that block of data. The CRUSH map tells Ceph how to protect duplicate blocks from single points of failure.
In the simplist configuration, you do OSD isolation. No two copies of the same block are ever stored on the same OSD.
You can expand this to the node/host. You can make the same rule that no one host can hold two copies of the same block.
My CRUSH configuration is attempting data closet isolation. No two copies of the same block can exist in the same data closet.
If I had moved the physical drives to a host in the same data closet, then some rebalancing would happen. I moved the drives to hosts in different closets.
Ceph then proceeded to rebalance 70 TB. Which is why networks had to be reworked. I managed to eliminate most of the bottlenecks.
Unfortunately, it also meant that I had OSDs and Placement Groups go “near full,” slowing down the rebalancing. More drives to the rescue.
Question of the week?
For years, if a Democrat or leftist started yapping about this or that, regurgitating CNN talking points, I kept my mouth shut and just moved on.
Except if it was gun-related, then I spoke up.
Today, I’m much more likely to speak up. To attempt to bring facts and logic to the discussion. I no longer sit silently for their lies.
Do you feel it is safer to speak up about your political stance today?










